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A Dilemma for Women

By Leah Smiley

 

I love Marissa Mayer, CEO of Yahoo. I think she embodies power, prestige, and position. She has challenged common reasoning in the IT industry in everything from the role of women to the dress code to work-at-home policies. She has also been a powerful force in the recognition of young female executives.

Yet, the recent photo shoot with Vogue Magazine presents a conundrum. As I scrolled down to look at reader comments in an article about the photo shoot, many people questioned her decision-making abilities. What’s different from previous criticisms is that this particular photo shoot seemed to take a notch out of her belt by focusing on her beauty vs. her brains.

As more organizations look to women to serve in more non-traditional positions, such as CEO’s, board members, and other executive roles, women are forced to walk that fine line. While one’s appearance can make or break one’s workplace potential, the focus must continue to be on diverse intellectual contributions, innovation, inclusion, and high performance.

This presents a dilemma for women, as pervasive stereotypes function as a glass ceiling and some gender roles are preserved in stone. How can we change this dilemma for women?

(1) We need more Marissa Mayer’s to serve as CEO’s and board members. Therefore, fascination with female executives will not be left on the shoulders of one smart lady, but spread among the many talented women in business today. Mary-Frances Winters, CEO of the Winters Group, has been doing a series on sponsorship for multicultural women over the last few weeks. This is a great place to start.

(2) We must continue to promote women’s rights and interests. For example, if a male executive loved automobiles and was featured  in Car and Driver Magazine, it would not be very newsworthy. But a female executive who loves fashion headlining in Vogue Magazine? This is unheard of!!! Again, we’re touching on issues of equality and diversity. The more education that we provide in this area, the less shocking it will become. It will also be more acceptable for females to be themselves– even in leadership positions.

 

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Leah Smiley is the President of the Society for Diversity, the #1 professional association for diversity and inclusion. For more information about the Society for Diversity, log onto http://www.societyfordiversity.org.

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“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”

– Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

 

There were two groundbreaking decisions made this week. In one, the Justice Department determined that it will no longer pursue mandatory minimum sentences for certain low-level, nonviolent drug offenders. Eric Holder, U.S. Attorney General, noted “shameful” racial disparities in sentencing, budgetary strains of overpopulated prisons and draconian policies for incarceration, among the reasons for his decision.

In New York, a judge ruled that the city’s controversial stop-and-frisk policy is unconstitutional. The tactic allows police to search anyone regardless of whether they believe a crime has been committed. The federal judge asserted that the policy unfairly targets Blacks and Hispanics, who endure 80% of the searches. New York City Mayor, Michael Bloomberg, vowed to appeal the ruling because the judge is biased against police and ignores the “real-world realities of crime”.

Sometimes I wonder, “Why do I work in diversity and inclusion?” This must be one of the most difficult professions in the world—for a variety of reasons. Yet, as I read the news stories about these legal decisions, I remember that my children are black—my son is 4 and my daughter is 6. If I don’t do everything in my power to impact this world for the good, they may become victims of the legal system, educational imbalances, employment discrimination, biased housing patterns, health disparities, and economic inequities.  And then, they will be blamed for failing to live up to the American Dream.

Like most parents, I believe that my son and daughter are very intelligent. But my daughter has a “personality” with her intelligence. I’ll give you an example. One day, I took my kids outside to play. They looked across the street and saw two children, around the same age, riding a motorized bike. My daughter (who was 5 at the time) said, “Oooh.” I told her, “Do not ask to ride their bike.”  She said “OK”. I repeated it again. She said, “Alright mom!” I cleaned out the car while my kids played. After I finished, I saw my daughter talking to the kids across the street. Next thing I knew, she was riding her scooter really fast, doing circles around the kids. Within minutes, the kids got up and let my daughter ride the motorized bike. When she was finished, I called her over and said, “What just happened”? She replied, “Mommy, I didn’t ask to ride the bike. I told them that we should race and if I win, I ride the bike.” She won. I could not say anything; all I could think of is her running circles around those little kids. A teacher once told me, “We’re not supposed to say what children will be when they grow up, but your daughter is definitely going to be an Executive somewhere.”

Imagine losing out on that kind of talent in the workplace because you are looking at the color of a person’s skin. Yet, good intentions don’t always have the best outcomes. We can think about having that kind of diverse talent in our places of business, but seem to fall short in this area of inclusion. That is why there has to be some kind of business logic behind this machine called “diversity and inclusion” so that good intentions match or exceed the outcomes of diversifying college campuses, workplaces, nonprofits and governments.

On August 28, 1963, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. spoke of the mandate for his children in an electrifying speech on the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, DC. Every time I think about his vision, I can’t say that I apologize for being passionate about diversity and inclusion. As far as I am concerned, I have skin in the game too– so making a difference is not optional for me. I was destined to impact the world for my children and for the lives of millions of diverse individuals– as well as for those organizations that will run better as a result.

By Leah Smiley

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Leah Smiley formed the Society for Diversity while pregnant with her son. Today, Mrs. Smiley is President of the Society for Diversity, the #1 and largest professional association for diversity and inclusion. For more information, log onto www.societyfordiversity.org.

WEBINAR, 6/20: “Reducing the Appearance of Reverse Discrimination & Double Standards”

Do employee perceptions align with the reality of your diversity and inclusion efforts? How do you know that the majority groups don’t view your efforts as reverse discrimination or double standards?

Find out how to distinguish between perceptions of discrimination, reverse discrimination and double standards at a webinar on:

“Reducing the Appearance of Reverse Discrimination & Double Standards”
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
1:00PM – 2:00PM (EST)

Register at http://www.societyfordiversity.org

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